Date; 2006.09.29(Fri)
People who are learning English often have questions about similar words. That’s natural. If they ask a native speaker about them, they usually expect to get a definite answer: an answer that clearly shows the difference. That’s natural too. But it’s not always that simple. Take for example the difference between a “scene” and a “sight”.
First, I want to give you a little back ground. I was talking with another teacher, and he told me that one of his students told him in class that he, the student had gone to a park and seen a family having a picnic. There was a mother, a father and two children who were playing happily on Sunday afternoon, The student said, “it was a touching scene.” the teacher correct her, “it was a touching sight.” Naturally the student wanted to know what the difference was, but the teacher had a difficult time explaining it. He said “it was just a feeling,” and then later he asks me which one I would choose. I thought either one was OK. However If I had to choose one, “scene” would be my choice. The reason is the activity, “the children playing”. I think there’s movement, there’s action in scenes. Movies are made up of scenes. “Scene” can also refer to a place, like the scene of crime. But even then, it’s a place where something happened. It’s the place where the crime was committed.
If you take a trip, sightseeing is probably something you do. Here is an example. “They went to London and saw the sights.” They went to places worth seeing. I think that a “sight” is something like a photograph, but that a “scene” is more like a movie picture. I don’t know if this will help you to understand the difference between them, but I wanted to tell you the story about the Teacher so that you know that even we (the Teaches) don’t always agree on how similar words are different.
Keep asking questions even if the answers you get are not always satisfying. Wanting to know will help you to learn. See you next time. Bye!
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Date; 2006.09.26(Tue)
This time the topic is not a happy one, if you’re feeling “blue” and “lonely,” you might want to wait for another time to read it. Actually it’s not going to be that sad. Lots of people have asked me how “sad” and “lonely” are different, so let’s talk about these two and more if there’s room for it.
It seems obvious to say this but, when you feel unhappy you can say that you’re sad. Lots of things can make you sad: disappointments, troubles, broken hearts, the deaths of people close to you, even a sad history in the movie theater. You can “be” or “feel” sad. I was sad about the history of some people who were at the World Trade Center on September 11th in New York when the terrorist attack, there’s a film of Oliver Stone which tell us about the facts. This film made me feel sad. “Sad” is an adjective and you can use it to describe things that give you the feeling. Here’s an example. Tears welled up in their eyes as they saw the film to his sad history. Some times you’ll see “sad” used when there’s no feeling of sorrow. It can also mean “terrible, really bad.” The house was in sad shape when they bought it. It was practically falling down; many things need to be fixed. (I’m sure they feel sad about paying for the repairs).
“Lonely” is a little different. When you “are” lonely or “feel” lonely, you want the company of other people; you want to be together with friends or companions. That feeling makes many people sad, but “sad” and “lonely” is not exactly the same thing. I was sad at the movie theater, but I wasn’t lonely because there were lots of other people around.
There is another word that you can use to express when you are “sad.” The word “blue” is also an adjective that describe also sadness not just the color. And there’s another one. “Alone” when you are alone, you are not with any one else. “Alone” is also an adjective, but is also and adverb. One of my friends’ lives alone; he lives by himself. He doesn’t have a wife or a roommate. I remember asking him one day, “Don’t you ever get lonely?” He said, “No, not really.” He never feels the need of a companion. “Alone” can also have the meaning of “without the help of someone else.” The boy couldn’t carry the suitcase alone. I wasn’t able to finish the work alone so I asked someone for a hand.
Don’t ever feel sad if you have trouble with similar words. Remember, you’re not alone. Lots of other people have the same trouble, too. Bye!
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